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By: Alice

Two months ago, my husband passed away. A good friend of my husband started texting me right away and he said he was just making sure I was ok and also that we were comforting each other through the...

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By: Rens

If he puts his mom before me and I’m to shut up well bye then. I am first needy but if the guy doesnt care then I’m the opposite and don’t need him anymore.

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By: Arven

Hello, I think I have a problem of being needy. But at the same time I feel like it would not be the case if he did not change so suddenly. We were always spending time together with my bf. Playing...

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By: cassandra

I was seeing this guy for about 9mnths and in the beginning it was wonderful. then i wanted to see him more i started complaining he wasn’t making time for me. I constantly called and texted Saying...

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By: Amanda

By reading this article I have received more practical solutions within the last five minutes of my life than I ever have reading any relationship column! Thank you so much for your realistic advice!

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By: Kristi McWilliams

Good article, Eric. The truth is that being “needy” cannot be explained in it’s totality, whereas the behavior or actions that coincide with neediness is very subjective. You are absolutely right that...

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By: RosesAreBlue

I really don’t think it’s a case of me not having other things to do. I am an extremely busy person and find it very difficult to make spare time to even talk to my mum on the phone… and yet I often...

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By: Lee

I have been with a man for about 3 years. We broke up countless times and he moved in and out of my house many times. He last moved out about 2 months ago. He still comes around when I need help and...

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By: Nerd375

I have to say I have been suffering deeply from anxiety for the last week and your article made all of it go away in about three seconds. I understand now what I have been doing wrong and I’m going to...

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By: Kay

I’m a woman and I give this article a solid Amen. It’s the truth I was the type of woman who always had a man I wasn’t “right” without one. If One didn’t act right I’d get another right away....

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By: Alex

Hi Eric I think I just ruined a relationship with a guy I really really like because of my hardiness. I am absolutely ashamed of my behaviours, I got even a little bit obsessed. No wonder he does not...

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By: Eric Charles

Hey Alex, Neediness is rooted in “fear of loss”. Look inside yourself and how you related to this man and this relationship? I think you’ll see that all of the so-called neediness was rooted in a fear...

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By: Susan

So I met a guy a few weeks ago on a dating site. I’ve been divorced 15 years, and rarely meet men I really connect with. I had 3 amazing dates, and I really connected with him. He was really sweet,...

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By: Vivi

Had an amazing few months..he said the I love you daily many times…we were so.in sync like we had been together all our lives…all.was in place ..when out we had to.touch one another ever in hand...

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By: Gloria

Thnx for the advice,I’m bn wondering what I was doing wrong..I am in a relationship ,my boyfriend works I dnt but I want him to text,call communicate almost everyday and he sometimes just dnt text back...

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By: Dee

That was really compassionate and helpful, thank you ❤️

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By: Elle

What are your thoughts on a male expecting his wife to handle all of the “feminine” household duties such as cook every meal and do all the grocery shopping and cleaning and constantly picking up after...

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By: Jayne

Eric, Your thought processes about relationships are amazing! I love all your articles. Relationship is about choice. No one cannot blame anyone for his or her unhappiness. Be accountable for your...

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By: Joy

I have a habit of being needy and not giving men their space and after pushing the last guy away, I’m starting to recognize all this and that I need to learn to love myself. I’ve reconnected with an...

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By: Tammy

My guy always answers is phone and reply’s to my text except recently. I called him on my way home from work like I do just about every day but he didn’t Answer or return my call. The next morning I...

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By: Jill

It’s been about a year since my ex boyfriend Completely dumped me out of the blue for reasons that he claimed were cuz he wasn’t happy as a person and felt as if It was making me unhappy. After reading...

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By: LadyLaz

Eric, thank you so much for all these articles! I really appreciate the knowledge that you’re sharing with us and the message underneath everything you write: when we become more fulfilled in our own...

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By: Anna

Its great to hear a guys perspective on neediness. But I dont understand one thing: I often hear that men want to be needed by women, but at the same time women should also be independent and enforce...

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By: Maria

In reply to <a href="https://www.anewmode.com/dating-relationships/male-behavior-neediness-dating-tips-relationship-advice-for-women/#comment-1560761">Anna</a>. Just have own life dont care...

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By: Emari

Last 20 years of your life? You don’t even look 20. That being said, your advice is solid, and it works when two individuals are emotionally and mentally healthy for the most part. When couples fall...

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By: M

Yes it does help. I love this article. Thank you. (Also that line where you said “Jeez…calm down…” really made me laugh out loud! You’re so funny and I love how you mix it up in your articles and cover...

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By: M

In reply to <a href="https://www.anewmode.com/dating-relationships/male-behavior-neediness-dating-tips-relationship-advice-for-women/#comment-853188">Eric Charles</a>. Oh I LOVE the...

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By: M

In reply to <a href="https://www.anewmode.com/dating-relationships/male-behavior-neediness-dating-tips-relationship-advice-for-women/#comment-853187">Eric Charles</a>. “You can’t have...

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By: Evie

I think I may have committed an inadvertent needy mistake. It’s been a couple of weeks since we’ve seen each other due to trips and work schedules. We’ve only had four dates. We were chatting this...

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By: Eric Charles

In reply to Evie. Let’s say the guy is interested. OK, then what? What comes next for the relationship? See in today’s culture it’s like there is a giant step missing when it comes to creating a great...

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